Founder’s Blog
Thoughts on behaviour support, connection, dignity and the messy realities of helping people well. We write about what works, what gets in the way, and the questions we think our sector should keep asking.
Relationships Are Part of the Environment
The same person may communicate, participate and respond very differently depending on who is supporting them. This article explores relational Positive Behaviour Support and why trust, familiarity, shared history and power should be considered when assessing behaviour and developing meaningful strategies.
When a Family Says "You're Too Young": Earning Trust Around a Child
When a family questions a practitioner’s experience, the concern is often shaped by previous disappointments, disrupted relationships and the fear of starting again. This article explores how newer practitioners can build trust through honesty, consistency and the small commitments they keep over time.
What Good Behaviour Support Will Look Like for Participants in the Next Few Years
The future of Positive Behaviour Support is about more than reducing incidents. It is about relationships, quality of life, belonging and the systems surrounding each participant. This article explores the skills and shifts that will help practitioners provide more meaningful support in the years ahead.
Why We Hire for Warmth: What Participants Tell Us They Need
Qualifications and clinical knowledge matter, but meaningful Behaviour Support begins with connection. This article explores why Bespoke Behaviour hires for genuine warmth, curiosity and the ability to repair trust, and how good supervision helps practitioners protect those qualities throughout their careers.
Why Some People Thrive at Their Day Program
Day programs can offer participants friendship, routine, belonging and a place where people know them well. This article celebrates the Positive Behaviour Support practices day program teams already use and explores how their observations can help shape stronger, more practical Behaviour Support Plans.
When the Plan Isn't Working, Look at the Person's Day First
When staff struggle to implement a Behaviour Support Plan, the problem may not be the strategy or the people delivering it. Rosters, routines, staffing changes and the environment can all create barriers. Before rewriting the plan, take a closer look at what the participant’s day actually involves.
What a Participant Needs From Their SIL Team and Their Practitioner
A Behaviour Support Plan works best when the practitioner and SIL team build it together. This article explores the important knowledge support workers bring and shares eight questions SIL teams can ask to help ensure a participant’s plan works across real shifts, routines and changing staff teams.
The READY Framework: Does This Plan Sound Like the Person?
Does the Behaviour Support Plan genuinely reflect the person, or could it have been written about anyone? The READY Framework offers five practical questions to help families, SIL teams and Support Coordinators assess whether a plan is personal, understandable and ready to use in everyday life.
The 3am Test: Will This Plan Help the Person When It Matters?
A Behaviour Support Plan should help in the moments that matter most, including at 3am when a new support worker needs clear guidance quickly. The 3am Test asks one simple question: can someone find the right strategy and confidently act on it within seconds?
Before You Choose A Modality, Choose To Connect
The most powerful ingredient in therapy isn’t the specific model you use, it’s the quality of the connection between therapist and client.
Why Behaviour Support Plans Fail (and how to make them work)
Behaviour Support Plans (BSPs) are designed to create meaningful change, improve quality of life, and support individuals in reducing distress. But too often, they don’t work.
Trauma Informed PBS
When it comes to behaviour support, “trauma-informed” needs to be more than a buzzword.
Respecting Preferences Not Just Needs
Positive Behaviour Support is not always about needs versus behaviours. Sometimes it’s as simple as honouring preferences.
Family Voice And Professional Expertise
Without Family Voice, we risk writing plans that look good on paper but don’t fit real life.
Support Networks, Not Just Behaviour Practitioners
If a plan is provided with no conversation or context, it’s unlikely to land the way it needs to.
Behaviour Support Plans Evolve Just Like People Do
If a Behaviour Support Plan isn’t evolving, it’s failing.
Why Connection Is More Important Than Strategies
You can have the most beautifully written plan… but if the person doesn’t feel safe with you, seen by you, or respected by you, the strategy won’t stick.
What Is Positive Behaviour Support
Positive Behaviour Support (PBS) is more than just reducing risks of harm—it’s about creating meaningful change in someone’s life.
Documentation Verses Daily Life
Why we redesigned the data collection so it could be done less often, in simpler ways, without interrupting the flow of support.