Identity Affirming Positive Behaviour Support

In Behaviour Support, we’re taught to analyse, measure, and look for patterns.

But if we stop there - we miss the deeper truth:
Behaviour is shaped by identity.

A person’s neurodivergence can influence how they process the world.
Their trauma history might shape how they respond to stress or boundaries.
Culture informs how emotions are expressed - and how support is accepted.
Gender identity can influence experiences of safety, visibility, and autonomy.
When we ignore identity, we risk misinterpreting behaviour.

We see “non-compliance,” when it might be a sensory response.
We see “withdrawal,” when it might be a survival strategy learned from trauma.
We see “anger,” when it might be grief, frustration, or a deep need to feel heard.

Behaviour support isn’t neutral. And it shouldn’t be.

It should be informed, intentional, and identity-affirming. So when we write plans, when we offer strategies when we support regulation

Let’s always ask:
- What lived experiences might be shaping this behaviour?
- What part of this person’s identity needs to be seen and respected right now?

Because when we support the whole person, we stop trying to fix behaviour and start building safety, dignity, and trust.